My daughter will be one in october but?

my baby girl will be one in october and i cant wait but see my family isnt perfect but my daughters dads side of the family is dirty i mean they wont take baths and they stink and my side of the family is clean and i am embarassed to invite his side of the family to my daughters birthday but he really wants them to be there i mean they are really dirty one of the older sisters has mold in her hair where she never brushes or even washes she said the last time she actually brushed her hais was about 2and a half years ago and she wont wear deodorant his mom doesnt brush her teeth or she very rarely changes her cloeths they smell like open *** and **** they have a rooster running around in city limits throughout there house shits and pees everywhere and they wont clean it up what wuld you do and what should i do?

My daughter will be one in october but?
I would agree with the option of 2 parties. However, you will have to confront the situation. She is your child, and she is more important than the family of the father. You will eventually have to do what is best for your daughter no matter who it hurts, or how much. Try talking with the father first about the cleanliness issue, and if he won%26#039;t deal with his family, it will sadly be up to you. Make sure that they understand that there are things that must be done before they can be around your daughter. If they won%26#039;t do them, then it is their choice to remove themselves from your daughter%26#039;s life.





It isn%26#039;t going to be easy no matter what you do, but best of luck.
Reply:If I had a story like that, I%26#039;d write a book!!!!
Reply:It%26#039;s a lousy situation. It%26#039;s what you signed up for when you started your life with this man. It%26#039;s a shame his family is afraid of a shower, but you%26#039;re going to have to deal with them from time to time.
Reply:um....


is there any way you can have 2 seperate parties, one for your side of the family and another one some other day for his side of the family?LOL. I wouldn%26#039;t want them over either. good luck.
Reply:move...
Reply:Sounds like a Wayan Brothers movie.
Reply:You married him, which means you%26#039;re stuck with his nasty *** family. deal with it sister!
Reply:sounds like 2 seperate parties would be best. I would have his families at a park (open air flow). I hope your daughter%26#039;s father is the black (clean) sheep of that family. I also hope you don%26#039;t let your daughter visit there home when you are not there (hygiene reasons). This sounds beyond belief. I would probably give them all personal care product baskets for birthdays and Christmas. Air Freshners and baby wipes are your best friend.--That poor little girl.
Reply:oh I can agree with you my family is the same my husband%26#039;s family sucks they talk trash about their owns if you know what i mean my family can%26#039;t stand them because they don%26#039;t shower and they live in the trash therefore I told my husband that I don%26#039;t want them in my babies life I%26#039;m currently pregned and i told him no more embarrassments in public, you take it or leave it whom help you to become a better person? them or me? in this case me but I am not sure about your case!!, so talk to him in a kind sexy sweet way and trust me it works.!!!
Reply:tell your baby daddy that they is not invited if they don%26#039;t get clean reaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaal good.tell him this is your baby birthday.


ask if %26quot;what if your side of the family was dirty would he want them to come to the party.switch the subject around.



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